The Therapist’s Corner

On a wall in my office is a poster of John Lennon with the quote, “Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.” We all live with a relatively healthy sense of denial which keeps us from being overwhelmed by the tragic events which we know could occur at any moment. If we lived our lives consumed with fears of earthquakes, floods, hurricanes and terrorist attacks we would be too afraid to leave our homes. Yet, we also can’t ignore the possibility that disaster can strike at anytime and as such we should be as prepared for them as is reasonably possible. Since we live in earthquake country, most of us have come to appreciate the importance of having a family disaster plan, and a disaster preparedness kit.

Emotional responses to disasters will vary a great deal, though for most people their reactions will be well within what would be considered normal. Feeling a sense of shock or emotional numbing, some sadness and depression and even guilt are all normal. Anger, anxiety, panic, and irritability may also be present as may problems with concentration and physical symptoms such as headaches and stomach pains. Also, given that disasters often occur with little or no warning, it is very common to feel out of control with tremendous uncertainty about the future. Yes, a disaster preparedness kit is vital, but let’s not overlook the importance of preparing for the emotional challenges we will inevitably face as well.

While our reactions to disasters may differ, there are some very useful coping strategies which are beneficial for everyone. Perhaps most important is to accept that returning to normal life may take a while. When possible, however, it is still best to keep up with normal daily routines, and to make sure that you are eating properly, and keeping up with good sleep hygiene. Regular exercise and other activities such as meditation and yoga can also be very beneficial during a time of crisis. Resisting alcohol and drug use is also important as they can worsen an already difficult situation. Additionally, watching images of the disaster on TV and on the internet needs to be limited as well, especially for children. During the 9-11 terror attacks many people repeatedly watched the images of planes flying into the World Trade Center buildings. Some children believed that these were many different attacks while not understanding that they were actually repeated showings of the same event.

Perhaps our greatest resource during a disaster is the support we can give to each other. Keeping ourselves surrounded by family members and friends, and being a part of organizations such as religious and neighborhood groups is invaluable. Of course, professional counseling may also be important, especially if the above symptoms linger long after the crisis situation has ended.

— Scott M. Granet

Scott Granet, LCSW is a long-time resident of Redwood Shores, and is director of the OCD-BDD Clinic of Northern California in Redwood City. He would like to hear your suggestions for future columns, and can be reached at 650-599-3325 or .

A Room For Mom

When your parents or older friends and relatives are visiting (or moving in with you), you can make several modifications to your home’s interior to make everyone more comfortable. Changes in visual acuity, upper body strength and balance can make negotiating stairs, getting up from a soft chair or sofa, and getting in and out of bathtub or showers difficult for older adults. These are all places for potential falls. Let’s examine three areas of the home where quick upgrades will yield the most benefits.

Guest Room:

A separate space for your guests that’s away from the bustle of your household will give everyone more privacy. Provide a comfortable upholstered chair for reading with good lighting, because reading in bed can be uncomfortable for many people. The chair should have a firm seat cushion and arms to make it easier to get out of. A storage ottoman on wheels can do multiple duty as a place to put bed linens, set a suitcase, sit on to dress and to prop up feet on while reading. Check to see if the window coverings are due for a cleaning or replacement. Dust-collecting fabric drapes and mini-blinds can be replaced with cordless shades or shutters to decrease allergens in the room. A hard floor surface rather than carpet makes it easier to negotiate with a walker or to roll a wheelchair. Placing a large area rug under the bed that extends about 30″ around the bed’s perimeter makes a cozy spot for bare feet to land first thing in the morning.

Bathroom:

Changes here can benefit the entire family. Replace your toilet with a “comfort height” toilet with an elongated seat. These toilets’ seats are about 19″ high and much easier to use as hips stiffen with age. These toilets come in low flow and dual flush models from Kohler and Toto. Grab bars can be installed without replacing the tile when you use the Securemount Anchor series from Moen. These should be placed for ease of entering and exiting the shower and the bath tub. A grab bar near the toilet can also be used as a towel rack. Install an occupancy sensor in the bath that will turn the light on when someone enters the room and turn off the light when motion is no longer detected. Using wireless remote controls for a shade on a window above the tub prevents the awkward stretching for a cord.

Main Living Areas:

Install motion detectors at the top and bottom of the stair landings which will turn on lights to illuminate the stairs as someone enters that space. Individual battery operated LED lights can be mounted on the sides of the stair wall near the tread level for only about $10 each. These lights can be controlled wirelessly by the motion detector to avoid electrical work that cuts into the drywall. Provide comfortable seating for all ages with firm seat and back cushions on upholstered furniture. An upholstery shop will replace a sofa seat cushion for about $75. Consider replacing a worn occasional chair with a motorized recliner. They are available in many design styles and fabrics to coordinate with your current furnishings and have the advantage of infinite positioning for different height individuals. If your beige walls and neutral furnishings look dated, you may want to use a new color scheme to breathe life into your rooms. Non-allergenic paint like Benjamin Moore Aura will dry in two hours and not smell like you just painted when the guests arrive. Enjoy your guests, knowing the improvements you’ve made will be enjoyed by the entire household for years to come.

 

— Jean Cary, Jean Cary Interiors

To find the solutions to your home dilemmas, give Jean a call: of (650) 593-9622

From the The Palo Alto Medical Foundation — Newborn Screening Saves Young Lives

All new parents should be aware of the importance of the newborn screening test—a simple, routine way to protect your child from potentially life-threatening illness. This blood test can detect diseases that would otherwise not be apparent—in time for them to be treated.

To understand the newborn screening test, it’s important to look at its history. The test was initially developed to prevent mental retardation by promptly treating a rare disease called phenylketonuria (PKU).

In 1934, Dr. Asbjorn Folling first recognized PKU—a defect or deficiency in the enzyme that processes phenylalanine. Without an effective enzyme, the buildup of phenylalanine damages the developing nervous system—causing mental retardation and seizures. Doctors could treat infants with this disease by limiting their intake of phenylalanine, a substance found in proteins such as standard infant formula and breast milk. The problem was that the infants were healthy at birth and had no signs of the disease, so doctors and parents didn’t know which children to treat with this restricted diet. Dr. Robert Guthrie solved this problem by developing a simple test, using a drop of blood on filter paper, to test newborns for this disease. This was the birth of the newborn screening test.

The newborn screening test has expanded significantly, but it still follows the same principle and is conducted similarly. Newborn screens vary by state. In California, blood samples are tested for the following diseases:

  • Metabolic diseases (including PKU) that makes the body unable to use certain parts of food for energy, growth or repair
  • Endocrine diseases that cause the body to make too much or too little of a hormone, which can affect growth and development
  • Hemoglobin diseases, which cause anemia by affecting the type or amount of hemoglobin in the red blood cells
  • Cystic fibrosis, a common chronic lung disease in children

As medicine and genetic research advances, we’re able to identify more genetic diseases. As new tests become available, each new test must undergo a rigorous ethical discussion in order to be included in the newborn screen. The Institute of Medicine (IOM) has suggested three key principles for inclusion in newborn screening:

  1. Identification of the condition must provide a clear benefit to the child.
  2. A system must be in place to confirm the diagnosis.
  3. Treatment and follow up must be available for affected newborns.

For example, early identification of PKU can result in effective treatment and prevent mental retardation, clearly providing a benefit to the child. A test can confirm PKU and specialty care does exist.

On the other hand, we have a test for Huntington’s disease, but we have no effective treatment to alter the course of the disease. Therefore, choosing whether or not to test for Huntington’s disease is complex and made on an individual basis considering the potential psychological responses, the possibility for stigma or discrimination, and balancing this against the reduction of uncertainty in knowing whether one carries the gene. For these reasons Huntington’s disease does not meet the IOM standards and is not included on the newborn screening test.

Each state’s newborn screening program periodically reviews screening recommendations as new testing and new treatments become available. At that time these programs consider new additions and the possibility of eliminating certain tests.

To do a newborn screening test, a health care professional simply collects a few drops of blood from a baby’s heel and sends this sample to the newborn screening lab. Parents are notified if a child needs further evaluation, but it’s important to remember that requiring further screening doesn’t necessarily mean that a child has a disease or is sick.

All parents should be aware of the newborn screening test—a simple blood test that can save a child’s life.

— By Natasha Leman, M.D.

Wellness Tip – Improving Your Posture

We often hear that good posture is essential for good health. We recognize poor posture when we see it formed as a result of bad habits carried out over years and evident in many adults. But only few people have a real grasp of the importance and necessity of good posture.

Good posture is important to help us stand, walk, sit, and lie in positions that place the least strain on supporting muscles and ligaments during movement and weight-bearing activities.

Several factors contribute to poor posture-most commonly, stress, obesity, pregnancy, weak postural muscles, abnormally tight muscles, and high-heeled shoes.

In addition, decreased flexibility, a poor work environment, incorrect working posture, and unhealthy sitting and standing habits can also contribute to poor body positioning

How do I sit properly?

  • Keep your feet on the floor or on a footrest, if they don’t reach the floor.
  • Don’t cross your legs. Your ankles should be in front of your knees.
  • Keep a small gap between the back of your knees and the front of your seat.
  • Your knees should be at or below the level of your hips.
  • Adjust the backrest of your chair to support your low- and mid-back or use a back support.
  • Relax your shoulders and keep your forearms parallel to the ground.
  • Avoid sitting in the same position for long periods of time.

How do I stand properly?

  • Bear your weight primarily on the balls of your feet.
  • Keep your knees slightly bent.
  • Keep your feet about shoulder-width apart.
  • Let your arms hang naturally down the sides of the body.
  • Stand straight and tall with your shoulders pulled backward.
  • Tuck your stomach in.
  • Keep your head level-your earlobes should be in line with your shoulders. Do not push your head forward, backward, or to the side.
  • Shift your weight from your toes to your heels, or one foot to the other, if you have to stand for a long time.

Can I correct my poor posture?

In a word, yes. Remember, however, that long-standing postural problems will typically take longer to address than short-lived ones, as often the joints have adapted to your long-standing poor posture. Conscious awareness of your own posture and knowing what posture is correct will help you consciously correct yourself.

— Steven Sprague D.C. practices at Premier Chiropractic Clinic in Redwood Shores.

— Information provided courtesy of the American Chiropractic Association (ACA). www.amerchiro.org

The Perils of Internet Shopping

When stores started selling their wares on the Internet several years ago, they opened a Pandora’s box. Customers are now faced with so many options that they can easily feel overwhelmed and suffer “paralysis by analysis”. I have clients who delayed starting a remodeling project for twelve years because they had the misconception they could save time and money by doing all the planning and shopping themselves. They spent hours perusing the web and became thoroughly confused about what was a good investment, which products were reliable long term and where to begin the project. All they discovered was that the task was too daunting to undertake without professional experienced guidance.

Shopping on the Internet doesn’t save money unless you consider that all your time is of no value. Mistakes in Internet purchases can be difficult and costly to resolve. Some companies don’t even have a phone number on their website for customer assistance! The customer is responsible when they order a product in the wrong size. This can be a major dilemma when measuring for window treatments or not considering the clearance for the swing of the door on an appliance when it is installed in cabinetry. Then there is the problem of tracking the product from purchase to delivery and installation-all without damage to the product or the home. The California Board of Equalization now requires the consumer to retro-actively pay sales tax on all out of state Internet purchases, so there isn’t even any saving in sales tax. When a customer shops for furniture, appliances and plumbing fixtures on the Internet they are unable to sit on the product, test its’ functionality or judge its’ quality.

Working with a designer keeps the customer from being overwhelmed with choices and decisions. Designers guide their clients towards durable products and companies with proven track records of excellent customer service. Often making a slightly larger investment in the initial purchase will yield a product with a history of lower maintenance and better warranty service. After all, doesn’t everyone want the dollars they spend today to provide years of pleasure and worry-free maintenance in their home?

What happened to the clients who delayed their remodeling project for years? Within weeks of hiring a decorator, they had a team that included an architect and a contractor who transformed their wishes into a specific floor plan with detailed attention to their needs for storage as well as dedicated spaces for music and video gaming. Now they can proceed with confidence to build their “forever “ home.

 

— Jean Cary, Jean Cary Interiors

To find the solutions to your home dilemmas, give Jean a call: of (650) 593-9622

Fashion Forward: Swimwear Shopping Savvy

I shared swimwear shopping tips with you at this time last year, but do believe they bear repeating. Women in particular tend to dread not only the day we have to appear in public in our swimsuit, but also the whole process of shopping for it.  (I mean, truly, couldn’t they put some flattering light and mirrors in those dressing rooms?!) Keep these few tips in mind and it won’t be quite so tortuous….

 

SSS Tip #1

First of all, forget about numbers…the size, that is.  No one will see the size but you, and the important thing is that the suit fit properly, to show off your best assets.  If it bothers you, cut out the tag after you purchase.

 

SSS Tip #2

You probably have a pretty good idea about your body ‘shape’, i.e. round, rectangle, triangle, inverted triangle, hourglass.  That being said, you should look for suits that will emphasize your most attractive assets while minimizing those areas you’re not so fond of.

For example, if you want to camouflage your midriff, a suit with ruching in the midriff will help. A vertical accent, such as a ruffle down the front of a suit or a vertical line in a contrasting color, will help to slim the body.

If your shape is a triangle (heavier on the bottom), you can focus attention on the upper body with a printed tankini top and solid color bottom. Another way to accomplish this is a suit with wide-set straps, which will draw the eye upward and outward, emphasizing the upper chest and shoulders.

If you want to emphasize (or create) a waistline, a suit with detailing at the waist will do the trick. You may want to check out the swimsuit section on the Nordstrom website – you can look at suits according to your body type.

 

SSS Tip #3

Think about the fabric and your planned activity before you purchase.  For example, if you’re planning on spending time in the water, avoid crocheted or loosely-knitted suits because they sag and lose their shape when wet. Move around in your suit – stretch, sit down, raise your knees. You want to make sure the suit stays in put in all the proper places.

 

SSS Tip #4

Get a tan…no, not in the sun but out of a bottle.  We all look better in a swimsuit when our skin is a bit tanned.  Whether it’s a spray-on (Mystic and Versatan systems are two good ones…I especially like Versatan because it dries you off after the ‘liquid tan’ is sprayed on…minimizes streaking) or a lotion (again, my favorite is Loreal Sublime Bronze…gives a good color and doesn’t have a strong odor…be sure to wash your hands well afterwards or, as I do, wear latex gloves to apply.)

— Adena DiTonno

Adena is owner of adenaDesigns, a fashion and wardrobe consultancy in Redwood Shores.

Acterra’s Green@Home

Acterra’s Green@Home program has opportunities for you to continue making a difference to protect our planet and help others do the same too. Become a Green@Home Energy Specialist Volunteer and start visiting your neighbors to perform FREE Home Energy Assessment to help them reduce energy use, cost and their carbon footprint.  After 2.5 hours visit volunteers can save up to $182 or more per year and eliminate 2,000 Lbs of CO2 emissions or more.

As a Green@Home Energy Specialist volunteer you will meet with residents in their homes to install simple energy-savings devices and create home energy conservation plans.  These FREE HouseCalls are currently being offered in Cupertino, Mountain View, Palo Alto, Redwood City and Sunnyvale. Please join us in this effort and spread the word. Our upcoming training session is:

Two Thursday Sessions, July 14 & 21

5:30, p.m. – 9:30 p.m.., in Mountain View

To register, sign up at http://greenathometraining.eventbrite.com/ .

For more information about this program, please visit www.acterra.org/greenathome .

Para este servicio y entrenamientos en Español por favor póngase en contacto con Elizabeth Sarmiento al (650) 962-9876 x354 o visite esta pagina Web, www.acterra.org/programs/greenathome

Thank you,

— Deb Kramer, Green@Home Training and Volunteer Coordinator

Give Your Stuff Away Day

Recycling is a wonderful activity. Donating to a non-profit is even better. But if this is just too much hard work after you’ve spent all your energy de-cluttering, why not simply give things away?

Saturday, May 14 is Give Your Stuff Away Day, which means you should be able to place a few unwanted things at the end of your driveway and watch them magically disappear. As the organizers of the event say, this is an easy way to help those in need, keep things out of landfill, and reduce clutter in your home. If you can, pencil in some time a few days before the 14th to identify anything you’d like to wave farewell to.

Check out the website, www.giveyourstuffaway.com for more information and guidelines on acceptable items. You should also plan to take responsibility for removing any leftovers which are not spirited away by eager treasure-hunters.

And a final note of caution: if you don’t intend to give stuff away, this would be a good weekend to make sure bikes, toys and garden tools are not lying around outside your house… someone might get over-enthusiastic and transport them to a new home.

— Pauline Wiles,
— Redwood Shores resident and owner,
— The English Organizer — www.englishorganizer.com

From the The Palo Alto Medical Foundation — Local Color You Should Eat

How many colors did you eat today? March was National Nutrition Month, and the American Dietetic Association introduced the theme “Eat Right with Color.” Colorful foods are loaded with “phytonutrients,” or plant substances that can protect us against cancer, heart disease and other unhealthy effects of aging. The brighter and more intense the colors, the stronger the phytonutrients are in foods. Each color group provides us with different, important nutrients.

We’re fortunate to live in the Bay Area, where it’s easy to get a variety of fresh, colorful produce all year round. Fruits and vegetables that grow locally are usually picked ripe, and they have more color because they don’t have to be shipped long distances. I get my rainbow of produce by shopping at a farmers’ market and subscribing to Community Supported Agriculture (CSA). CSA enables you to purchase seasonal produce grown at a local farm. Visit www.localharvest.org for more information.

People who eat more fruits and vegetables as part of a healthy diet are likely to have a reduced risk of chronic diseases, including stroke, type 2 diabetes, some types of cancer, heart disease and high blood pressure.

Here’s a sampling of what colorful foods that you can find in the local market today:

  • Go green: Green fruits and vegetables are colored by a natural plant pigment called “chlorophyll,” which contains nutrients “lutein” and “zeaxanthin” believed to help keep your eyes healthy and reduce risk of cataracts and age-related eyesight degeneration. “Indoles,” chemicals found in the cabbage family, may help protect against some types of cancer. Some good green options are Romanesco cauliflower, bok choy, Brussels sprouts, asparagus, dinosaur kale, collards, rapini, kiwis and avocados.
  • Red rules: Red fruits and vegetables are colored by natural plant pigments called “lycopene” or “anthocyanins.” Lycopene may reduce your risk of several types of cancer, especially prostate cancer, and it may slow the development of atherosclerosis. Anthocyanins can act as powerful antioxidants that protect cells from damage and help keep our hearts healthy, too. Try painting your plate red with strawberries, blood oranges, ruby grapefruit, guavas and beets this week.
  • Bright news about orange and yellow: Orange and yellow fruits and vegetables are usually colored by natural plant pigments called “carotenoids.” Beta-carotene, a well-known carotenoid, is converted to vitamin A, which can help maintain healthy mucous membranes and healthy eyes. Carotenoid-rich foods may help reduce the risk of cancer and heart disease, and benefit your immune system. Some orange and yellow citrus fruits are high in vitamin C, another powerful antioxidant that may reduce the risk of cancers and heart disease. Add a splash of orange and yellow to your diet with carrots, winter squash, oranges, tangerines, and Meyer lemons.
  • White earns its colors: White fruits and vegetables are colored by pigments called “anthoxanthins,” which may help lower cholesterol and blood pressure and reduce the risk of stomach cancer and heart disease. Some white fruits and veggies are good sources of the mineral potassium, too. A few good white choices are parsnips, potatoes, onions, green garlic, crimini mushrooms and pears.
  • Try true blue (and purple): Blue and purple fruits and vegetables are colored by natural plant pigments called “anthocyanins,” which may act as powerful antioxidants that protect cells from damage. They can help reduce the risk of cancer, stroke and heart disease, and have been associated with boosted memory function and healthy aging. Try adding more blue and purple to your plate with red cabbage, radicchio, purple cauliflower and purple potatoes.

When it comes to the produce you put on your plate, go local and diverse with an emphasis on colorful intensity. I hope you’ll use these tips to improve your diet and reap the health rewards offered by colorful fruits and vegetables.

 

— Darcie Ellyne, M.S., R.D., CDE

— The Palo Alto Medical Foundation and column editor Arian Dasmalchi provide this monthly column.

Fear and Greed

Somewhere an article compared the skills of investing with skiing. It is interesting how the mastery of these two very different activities require similar and very counter-intuitive techniques. Mastery of skiing requires us to conquer our fears of falling. To go down a slope, we must lean down the mountain; and to turn, we must lean into it.

Similar is the case with investing. We are afraid of going against the public sentiment. When the world is enamored by an investment trend, it is difficult not to be a part of this trend. The thought of being left behind and not profiting is a strong motivator to join. This is our greed in play. Similarly, to hold onto something whose basic fundamentals is strong but is not in favor anymore creates fear. The fear of being the loser is an equally strong motivator to sell. And this combination leads to “Buy High, Sell Low” behavior. Thus, in investing as in skiing, we need to learn the counter-intuitive skills of overcoming our greed and fear.

Behavioral finance is a relatively new field that seeks to explain our actions against the backdrop of modern finance. It postulates that investors are not necessarily rational beings, or at least not where finances are concerned. It includes observable, systematic, and human departures from rationality into standard models of financial markets. And proves, investor behavior has its effects on the market prices & returns. This contradicts the belief that financial markets are efficient.

As per some of the findings, men trade 45% more than women and sacrifice an additional 0.94% of their potential return as a result. Another finding is that loss aversion causes investors to sell winners too soon and hold on to losers too long.

The above findings are just the tip of the work done in behavioral finance. Research has been done in numerous aspects of human behavior. One example is how people “anchor” themselves to a certain price while trading and their future actions get determined by this anchored price. If a stock is bought at price X, to buy the same stock above X gets more difficult. We keep waiting for the price to go down so that we can buy it again.

To read more about this interesting aspect of finance, search on “behavioral finance” and you will find wealth of information on the internet.


— Lavina Nagar

— Lavina is a financial planner and founder of Maya Advisors, Inc. She can be reached on 650.704.3074 or 

Disclaimer: This article is for information-purposes only, and may not apply to your unique situation. Nothing in this should be interpreted to be a recommendation to anyone to purchase, sell or hold any security or product. It does not replace a lawyer, accountant, financial planner, or other professional advice.